1. The Easiest Option: Minecraft Realms
If you want zero technical hassle and don't mind spending a few dollars a month, Minecraft Realms is the official hosting service from Mojang.
- Pros: Literally takes two clicks. Always online. Completely secure.
- Cons: Requires a monthly subscription. Limited modding support.
If you just want vanilla Minecraft and want to start playing right away, Realms is the best choice.
2. Free and Simple: Aternos or Minehut
If you don't want to pay, services like Aternos offer free server hosting specifically designed for small groups.
- How it works: You create an account, start a server from their web dashboard, and share the IP address with your partner.
- Pros: 100% Free. Supports some basic plugins.
- Cons: You might have to wait in a queue to start your server. The server shuts down automatically if no one is playing.
3. LAN + VPN (Hamachi or Radmin)
If you're tech-savvy, you can host the game on your own computer and use a Virtual Private Network (VPN) tool like Hamachi or Radmin VPN to simulate a local network.
- Both of you install Hamachi/Radmin and join the same virtual network.
- The host opens their single-player world and selects "Open to LAN".
- The other player goes to the Multiplayer menu and connects using the host's VPN IP address and the port provided by the game.
4. Self-Hosting a Java Server
For complete control, you can host the server software on your own PC.
- Install Java: Make sure you have the latest version of Java installed.
- Download the Server File: Grab the official
server.jarfrom Minecraft.net. - Run and Accept EULA: Run the
.jarfile in an empty folder, then open the generatedeula.txtand changefalsetotrue. - Port Forwarding: Log into your router's settings and forward port 25565 to your computer's local IP address.
- Share Your Public IP: Give your partner your public IP address to connect.
Warning: Port forwarding exposes your network. Only share your IP address with people you trust!
Conclusion
No matter which method you choose, building a world together in Minecraft is incredibly rewarding. Happy mining!